There seems to be a parent in a group who has serious issues with the autistic point of view. Yes, none of us are alike and of course we are not like your children. We are as individual as allistic people are but as we are autistic we definitely have more insight into autism. Not every strategy is going to work for every autistic but I have found so much of the advice of my fellow autistics younger (Emma's Hope Book) and older (Karla's ASD Page) invaluable to both me and my daughter. It doesn't hurt to give serious thought to what is said.